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My adult child blames me. #adultchild #adultchildren | David E Clarke, PhD
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When your adult child blames you for their feelings… it hits very hard. As parents we are already very hard on ourselves. You want to defend yourself. You want to correct the story. You want to explain what you “really meant.” But research on adult emotional development tells us something important: When people feel emotionally flooded, overwhelmed, disregulated they often reach for blame because it gives a momentary sense of control. It’s not necessarily true…. It’s not maturity — it’s overwhel
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When your adult child blames you for their feelings… it hits very hard. As parents we are already very hard on ourselves. You want to defend yourself. You want to correct the story. You want to explain what you “really meant.” But research on adult emotional development tells us something important: When people feel emotionally flooded, overwhelmed, disregulated they often reach for blame because it gives a momentary sense of control. It’s not necessarily true…. It’s not maturity — it’s overwhel
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THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SAY TO YOUR ADULT CHILDREN “Your childhood wasn’t that bad.” This is usually said in response to an adult child expressing they were hurt by something that happened in childhood- This response to them is invalidating, dismissive and lacks empathy. “You owe me a relationship.” Biblically what we “owe” our parents is honor. Honor is showing respect to the person and in how we talk about them. If a parent is abusive, struggling with addiction or just mean and hurtful to us w
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THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SAY TO YOUR ADULT CHILDREN “Your childhood wasn’t that bad.” This is usually said in response to an adult child expressing they were hurt by something that happened in childhood- This response to them is invalidating, dismissive and lacks empathy. “You owe me a relationship.” Biblically what we “owe” our parents is honor. Honor is showing respect to the person and in how we talk about them. If a parent is abusive, struggling with addiction or just mean and hurtful to us w
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