Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

DEAR ABBY: I have been in a relationship with my now-fiance for eight years. I’m five years older than he is. I know he loves ...

And now I feel more confused than ever. Why isn’t he ready? A promise ring at this stage of life feels juvenile.