They've been friends for 30 years and during all that time she's been in relationships with men with addiction issues.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

For nearly 30 years, my husband and I shared a close, trusting marriage. Months ago, I caught him lying about meetings he was having with a 35-year-old colleague. Then I discovered months ...

DEAR ABBY: “Carole” and I have been friends for 30-plus years. Her marriage was great as long as her husband wasn’t using ...

For nearly 30 years, my husband and I shared a close, trusting marriage. Months ago, I caught him lying about meetings he was having with a 35- year-old colleague. Then I discovered months of ongoing ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

"He said he loves only me, and he wants me to trust him again. My problem is, after all his secrecy, lies, and defensiveness, ...

He wants me to trust him again. My problem is, after all his secrecy, lies and defensiveness, I can’t do that.

He said he loves only me, and he wants me to trust him again. My problem is, after all his secrecy, lies and defensiveness, I ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

A woman reeling from her husband’s secret communication with a younger colleague wonders how to heal when trust has already ...