They're undergoing a divorce, but Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez still care about each other. The former couple met for lunch in Los Angeles on Dec. 22 and exchanged holiday gifts, and Affleck gave his soon-to-be-ex-wife a thoughtful book.

Jennifer Garner had previously confirmed that Violet was home for the holidays after their beloved pet Birdie passed away a few days ago. Garner, Affleck and the kids also spent Thanksgiving together earlier this year, and reportedly felt “blessed” to be able to share the time together.