Dear Abby: My husband of 16 years spends major holidays with his kids and ex-wife ... not with me
DEAR ABBY: I’ve been with my husband for 16 years. He has two children, ages 17 and 19. Every year, he spends the major holidays with his ex and his kids. I can’t go with him because his ex has ruined any chance of my having a relationship with his children. Frankly, they hate me and blame me for their parents’ divorce.